４７ How to grow up with pleasure.【Sophia】Dialogue with the Universe

４７　How to grow up with pleasure.【Sophia】Dialogue with the Universe
【Point−１】Never cares to worthless things．
（１） Control Your Own Destiny
・Control Your Own Destiny or Someone Else Will．−Jack Welch（1935- ）
・Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.
Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking.
Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice.
And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. 　−Steve Jobs（1955-2011）
・Your heart determines your happiness.

（２） Find out what is really important for you！ Carry out the way to which your only once life be applied.
・If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today? −Steve Jobs（1955-2011）
・Even if I knew that tomorrow the world would go to pieces, I would still plant my apple tree.　−Martin Luther（1483-1546）
・Word of Tadanori Yokoo：
"Be who you are"・・・"Explore yourself more and more to become your own ultimately, and you express it, its expression becomes the word of God.
(Randy Taguchi, " Island of Light Rain, Yakushima" p.195)

（３）Don't be trapped by compete.
Don’t have an inferiority complex.
Don't be scrupulous.
Merely appreciate that you are alive.
And concentrate your power on taking out 100%！

・Your mind will become easy if you appreciate.　

【Point−２】 Reliance upon others is useless. Reliance upon others withers your mind and you become easy to be deceived.
・When it is in dependency, the leading role of his life is not himself.　Shigeki Suwa
http://homepage1.nifty.com/shigeki-suwa/loneliness/
・"If it is made for individual to be buried into a group and these monotonous days are repeated free thinking becomes impossible, it becomes easy to start a hint, and mental regression comes." 村井翔
Source：「心理学・入門」宝島社文庫　December, 1999(p.198)
・Since imprinting [which makes it regard it as an important thing that it is not important for you] is performed through education and a home life, it is necessary to continue the correction and escape from there tenaciously.

Freedom makes people loneliness .
But don't be afraid.
You cannot grow up, if not loneliness .
It says, if you do not forget love.
Loneliness and love grow up you.

The friendship between the wise men is light like water.　―Chuang-tzu

【Point−３】For grow up with pleasure, love the people, believe the people, accept the people, act for the people.
・If not, you are reduced, and would result in disaster to yourself and mankind.

Go fishing for the happiness of the day. Make a fortune for the happiness of one year. Help the people for the happiness of life. −The extract from a Chinese proverb

○ Liberté, Égalité, Fraternité « リベルテ、エガリテ、フラテルニテ　»
：Originating from the French Revolution. (1790 〜)

【Point−４】Do not be too greedy.
・Your mind will become easy if you appreciate.　
・Your mind will become easy if you appreciate.・・・Everyone is a child of the miracle.

【Point−５】Be positiv！Think always about happy things.
・To do so, please praise yourself and others daily.・・・Because the positive and negative contagious.
・Never blame yourself！
・To blame yourself is like making your enemy. As a result, everything becomes impossible increasingly.

Don't blame yourself.
But even you are small.
If you won't stop to blame, you'll be flour.

・The brain works well when optimistic.